Hi Shelli, My husband never does a THING around the house. I too work a full day, but unlike him, I get home and cook supper, bath and feed the children, make sure homework is done, and then settle down in front of my laptop to carry on working. While my husband sits on the couch with the remote. I have tried talking to him about it, but he..»

Hi Shelli, I read your column with great interest each week – and here’s my question: Would you say that you are a supportive wife? Because you come across as being quite sarcastic and high-maintenance... I just wonder if you are like that at home? Just Saying Dollface, That’s a rather interesting question. I guess I AM rather sarc..»

Hi Shelli, When girls ask: "Does this look okay?" or “Does this make me look fat?” - what do you want us to SAY? Are you asking for honesty or support? Because we really can't do both. This may seem a bit clichéd (because of the DSTV ad), but seriously, it would be nice to know how to answer my wife ... Once Bitten. Sweet Pea, The..»

Hi Shelli, I don’t mean to generalize here, but it’s pretty difficult knowing how to talk to women without them getting all emotional. When do we guys get to tell you the truth without you flying off the handle or crying for hours? It seems like there’s ALWAYS an excuse – you’re “tired” or “feeling overwhelmed” or “it’s that time of the m..»

Hi Shelli, We guys at the office have one question in common – why the hell do women always go to the bathroom in groups? Guys would NEVER do that and we just don’t get why women would even WANT to? And it’s always the same set-up – one girl needs to go, then another one says “me too”, and then all of a sudden they ALL want to go. At the sa..»

Hi Shelli, I read your article a few weeks ago on coping with your wife’s pregnancy – thanks for that – nice to know I am not the only whose wife has turned into a complete and utter stranger since falling pregnant (and I mean that in the nicest possible way). Thankfully, now that the end is in sight, she has almost returned to normal, exce..»